Shutting down all the lines of communication
I dislike to say it, even though I have never had the best relationship with our fiance, even in the start when the people I was with and I were dating the people I was with and I would frequently have disagreements, still the people I was with and I wanted to be married, however both of us figured once the people I was with and I were married things would get better, in addition to in some ways they did, then however, over time things have only gotten worse; I do not feel love there is any getting through to him.
If there was a single thing that he was to do that I cannot stand, it would be that he shuts down all lines of communication.
What I mean by this is, whenever the people I was with and I have an fight he consistently has to right, he cannot handle any kind of criticism in addition to he will really refuse to talk about it, however as someone that is a firm believer that talking about what issues both of you are facing will help you understand each other better in addition to bring up some solutions to said issues., his outright refUSAl to talk about anything is substantially frustrating. When there is no communication in a relationship, you will find no solutions. I think this all too well from our own experiences. A recent example of a confrontation the people I was with and I had was over the temperature control. When the people I was with and I first moved into our house together he wanted a new temperature control, I was good with the outdated dial temperature control but since he wanted a smart temperature control he gave to buy it… Then he did, now he has gotten it into his head that since he pays for it, in addition to that he “did it for me” which he didn’t, that he has full control over our entire heating in addition to a/c method in addition to I am not allowed to complain about because he “does so much for me” I am starting to see how manipulative the whole thing really is, then you don’t go acting love you’re going to do something nice for someone, only to use it as ammunition against them later. A gift with strings linked isn’t a gift at all.