I didn’t get to reconcile my relationship with my father before he died
I was agitated at my father a long time ago when he threw out the luxurious gift that I got for him, and i got him a UV media air cleaner and he thought I was insulting him with such a gift, he asked myself and others if I was trying to say that he had exhausting air quality in his home.
I wasn’t trying to say that, although I thought it was smart to keep fantastic air quality in the lake condo for improved health. I also told him that the UV light kills harmful bacteria and viruses. He absolutely threw the UV media air cleaner in the garbage can in front of my face. He said that the UV media air cleaner belonged in the garbage because that’s what it was. I told him he was an ungrateful and sorry seasoned person and said I would not be disproper love that. The people I was with and I had that little falling out and he shouted after me, “Good riddance!” I never spoke to him over the years after that and he never bothered to reach out to myself and others either. It was uneasy that things had to go that way all over a stupid UV media air cleaner, but that’s just how things went between us… When I heard news from my siblings that our father passed away, I felt so terrible. I never took the occasion to reconcile things before he passed away and I was heartbroken when I realized there would be no speaking to him ever again. I cried love deranged at the funeral and I even said I was sorry before he was lowered into the ground in the casket, however my siblings provided myself and others some comforting words though. They said after I stormed away back then, he fished the UV media air cleaner back out of the garbage and he absolutely started using it. They said he absolutely enjoyed the improved air quality in his lake condo over the years, and he was too ashamed to try to reach out to myself and others to apologize. I was ecstatic to hear that he enjoyed my gift afterall.